Perfecting Your Communication Skills for a Busy Season of Connecting
Fall isn’t just pumpkin spice and back-to-school routines—it’s also one of the busiest seasons for networking, conferences, and community events. From fundraisers to chamber luncheons to industry meetups, your calendar is about to fill fast.
And while showing up is half the battle, how you show up matters even more. Your communication skills—both online and in person—can be the difference between blending in and building real, lasting relationships.
Here are a few dos and don’ts to help you make the most of this busy season of connecting:
✅ DO: Lead with Curiosity
People love to feel seen and heard. Instead of jumping straight into your pitch, ask thoughtful questions and listen with intention.
👉 Try this: “Tell me what’s exciting in your world right now.”
❌ DON’T: Monopolize the Conversation
We’ve all met the person who talks at people instead of with them. Avoid turning every chat into a monologue about your business.
👉 Remember: conversations are a two-way street, not a billboard.
✅ DO: Share Stories, Not Just Stats
Facts are forgettable—stories stick. Share a client win, a behind-the-scenes moment, or a challenge you’ve overcome. Stories invite connection.
👉 Your business isn’t just what you do, it’s the story of why you do it.
❌ DON’T: Overdo the Business Cards
Yes, they’re important—but handing out cards without creating a connection first is just clutter. Build rapport before you exchange details.
👉 Better yet: follow up on LinkedIn with a personalized note.
✅ DO: Be Present (Put the Phone Down!)
Events are about connection, and nothing kills that faster than someone scrolling mid-conversation. Eye contact and genuine attention go further than any pitch.
👉 Real presence makes a stronger impression than a perfectly rehearsed elevator speech.
❌ DON’T: Forget the Follow-Up
The magic of networking happens after the event. A quick message, email, or coffee invite shows you’re serious about building a relationship—not just collecting contacts.
👉 Tip: Block time on your calendar the next morning for follow-ups.
As you head into this busy season, remember: effective communication isn’t about being the loudest voice in the room—it’s about being the most authentic, engaged, and intentional.
At Go Girl Communications, we believe your words are your most powerful tool for growth. When you show up with curiosity, clarity, and care, you’re not just networking—you’re building a community that lasts.